I am confused in conditional
For example if i say
If he had not insulted me,I wouldn’t have slapped him.
This mean in reality he insulted me and I slapped him
But if i am talking about this incident with my friend and my friend say you shouldn’t have slapped him and then I ask my friend
If he had insulted you,what would you have done?
In this situation if my friend say
If he had insulted me,I wouldn’t have slapped him
I know this mean in reality he didn’t insult my friend
and this is confusing part when my friend say”I wouldn’t have slapped him”in the above context does this mean in reality my friend slapped him or not?
If you could plz help me